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When your sustainable changes
There isn't one prescriptive way of living sustainably --
That's why The Sustainable Fox exists, really; to help others discover what their sustainable looks like. It's why bringing an intersectional lens to the challenges any client faces is so important... and why finding the answers on your own can be hard...
Because living sustainably isn't just about lowering your carbon footprint or voting with your dollar -- it's about finding a balance you can actually maintain and which inspires yourself. A balance that considers your economic situation, access needs, neighbourhood...
But sometimes, through no fault of our own, something on the scale of our personal balance changes and throws all of our carefully crafted routines, systems, feelings, and best intentions crashing down. When this happens, what is sustainable for us will change.
"Whether this change is temporary or long-lasting, what's important is to be gentle and honest with yourself" is what I would tell a client... but why is it so much harder to take your own advice?
I've had a challenging spring, and I've had to compromise with myself... a lot. I've had to change expectations of what I can accomplish, ask for a lot more help, and be willing to receive whatever comes (or doesn't come) of that request. And I've been so privileged to have a supportive community around me through a challenging series of unrelated health events that meant my ability to do my work or care for myself was drastically reduced for several weeks.
I feel like I missed spring. A season where I normally get a lot of my prep for the summer done. I've let the socials and blog space go quiet. Event season is upon us and I've left connections halfway connected. Every corner of the yard I care for is in need of care... dishes and laundry are piled high in my living space, a couple houseplants might not make it... but my body has done its job of healing.
It's okay.
My sustainable changed for several weeks, and that's okay.
It's going to take me some time and further support to reach balance like I held before, and that's okay.
I missed some fun stuff I wanted to contribute to/do, and that's okay.
I made more waste than usual, and that's okay.
It's okay to not be at your best. It's okay for your best to look entirely different from someone else's. It's okay for your best to change.
Just remember to keep the environment in mind when building your balance.
With love,
Sadie
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